Hi, Grahamesme,thank you so much for your imput to my post , i have in the past met so many men with your attitude, no respect for women , that i have decided that this foroum is not where i want to be , you say you opted for a career in the public sector that has given you a decent pension , i'm pleased for you , well me due to my husbands ill health, haven't done so well, were i might have carried on working , in a well paided job ,, had to give that up to look after him , you would problerly say it was my job as his wife , well it did pay £40+,so i shouldn't grumble should i grahamesme, i don't have, as you seem to have , a few quid to throw about, also i'm not grateful that i'm a woman getting her pension before my husband , i hope i speak for all the other women reading this , as you obersley haven't got a woman in your life , or you wouldn't disrespect women that way
jay- jay