Ha Ha....Sparky....

That is usually the position I find myself in, as I seldom take the majority view in anything.
One thing - or maybe a few things - that I will finally say about this subject are:
I have always believed - naively maybe - that if we are to be humane humans and we are to be able to call ourselves "civilised" then we have to consider how we can help other humans who are living in terrible conditions that are not of their making.
Just because we might feel that the home governments of these foreign countries should do what needs to be done, because they often don't, I see it as our duty as civilised human beings to help where we can .
Believe me I DO see your argument that we should have a say in how our taxes are spent on overseas aid and while that is a laudable idea it is not a very practical one as by electing any government to be able to do this - and many other things, on our behalf - we are trusting them to do right by us. In other words this is not something that can be done as well as it should be done outwith the control of national governments.
There are plenty of aid agencies that ask us for monetary help in what they do but even they cannot often do what needs to be done via private contributions as either they are often very top-heavy in management costs, ( which discourages us from giving freely to them ), or they are just not big enough or efficient enough to do all the work that needs to be done properly.
THIS is where national government aid comes in and where large amounts of money can be generated which is probably the only way that this aid can get to those that need it quickly enough to save thousand of lives.
I am thinking of natural disasters here as much as about situations that come about by war or terrorism and I think that in these cases the only way that aid can get to those that need it is via DIRECT and governmental aid.
Every modern and developed country has budgets set aside to pay for this DUTY and it is only those that don't that are usually the cause rather than the cure for such awful situations.
Believe me that the money IS there; it is just in the hands of people that are skilled at hiding this money from their governments. I say GET that money from these rich and privileged classes and give it to the people at home
and abroad that need it.
Once we have done that we can then truly call ourselves civilised.