Who's John, Alice ?
I think you will find that not everyone here is here to "whinge and criticise" and that a lot of good discussion goes on here amongst the ones that are willing to take part like this.
Sadly, many such forums often polarise down right and left directions and that can at times cause a bit of friction, BUT...if we just talk about the subjects we are all interested in instead of attacking people for their political beliefs I think you might find that many subjects can be debated without personalised invective starting to creep in.
If any of you REALLY want to whinge and criticise, my own forum is set up to handle subjects that people need to get off their chests. This can be found by just clicking on the banner at the bottom of any of my posts.
Oh yes, Alice, and there ARE a few lighter sub-topics nearer the bottom of the main index-page if you care to write something to those sections.