So much love around, I feel for all of you who have gone through the death, or the major health changes of your life partners. I believe its better to have loved, than the alternative. I've had the worry of my husband having heart problems since our forties. As he'd already lost his brother through the same condition, we realised the outcomes of surgery weren't guaranteed. Fast forward over twenty years, another heart issue that took months to diagnose, then more surgery. Fortunately we've had another ten since then, but I've faced the possibility twice that I could be on my own.
I count my blessings daily.