I am far from "well off" and I don't moan about money "problems", from not enough or too much, all I was trying to point out is, that not enough money is a lot more problematic than too much. I also have nothing against people being generous with their cash, and the gender of the recipient is neither here nor there.
But moaning about tax problems is in my opinion, just rubbing the less well off persons face in it.
When I retired I took the maximum lump sum to avoid paying tax on my pension, when I get the state pension I will have to pay some tax, but I won't be moaning about it, I'll just think how lucky I am compared to some others.