We don't all communicate in the same way. Face to face discussion is one thing, but on line someone who expresses their views forcefully may be accused of bullying, especially if they are disagreeing, or trying to prove a point. We have to make allowances.
Not many female members post in the serious bits. Although I've given up on the Brexit threads (yawn) I still post about social issues. Even though UP and I often (not always) disagreed, her opinion was as valid as everyone else's. Facts can't be disputed, opinions are up for discussion. If an argument goes on too long anyone can leave the thread!