In the past when two people met, and for many , many couples eventually got engaged, and later married.
today for many not all its still the same procedure, that is a church wedding, having the banns read and the vicar giving instructions to the would be married couple once they were in church,
who stands where and who says what etc, and yet other couples live together and dont even get engaged or even marries and again when children come along even the children are not baptised.,
so has society lost its way completely as it seems fewer couples cant afford getting married or do not accept wedding vows etc, as even the registry office wedding seems also to have fallen to one side as at one time they too were very popular,
Q; so do you have points of view regarding couples getting engaged and married as many of our parents did in the past, as many children in the future might have a job tracing their ancestors without the paper work which for many of us is handy when going on ancestry,.