And sadly, not for the first time. There are 'carers' who care and there are 'carers' who don't. It's a poorly paid, badly controlled and often badly managed sector and the only way they get away with it is because vulnerable people don't, or can't, complain. When I cared for my mum, with carer's help, the vast majority were salt of the earth, lovely people but some were less likable in attitude and empathy and the thought of them alone with her wasn't comfortable at all.