xetog, I seem to remember saying to you the other day that you could also ask one of your children for help. Would you listen - no. I have one like you at home.
If I try to stop him from doing something stupid, he is more determined to do it. My theory is that it is something to do with 25 years in the military "Never show emotion, never show fear".
Or is is just that men think they know better?
I hope you feel better soon - and stop doing daft things.