Funny, I was watching Good Morning a few days ago, my husband came in looked at the TV and said "can't stand him, can't put my finger on it", probably same 6th sense as you.
I feel sorry for his wife and children, he managed to fool his wife and have a family OK. If it were my husband I wouldn't be so nice about it, I'd feel my whole life was a lie. I'd be more likely to forgive if he had a string of women, to find hed been with a man would make me physically sick.
I've never liked him.
Most men have what's known as 'gaydar', there's a Labour MP who looks & sounds as gay as a coot & he's married with children but I wouldn't have any surprise if he 'came out' as gay.
I would think that most women who found themselves being married to a gay back-scuttler would think the same as you do.
I reckon his wife's 'understanding & acceptance' is to help his public persona & protect his career so he can keep bringing in the dosh.
The way that Schofield, & others, are portrayed as heroes for 'coming out', is another example of the insidious creep of modern social engineering which is designed to demolish the long-accepted traditional values of life.
Once the establishment & the elite have set the agenda of what's acceptable, they've gained total control.