Very worrying for young folk here theseadays. Especially male. I am prejudiced: I see gilrs/ladies(wotuwill),more liely to study and not to be so impetuous. This is how you get on: toe the line,keep your head down. Men seem to be more impulsive,more likely to take risks. Also,wherein men were expected to take the lead on dating and so on,now...its more nuanced and any 'forward' move can be taken,stored and then used against them come any disputation whether in work or play,or both
Probably best to turn and try to be gay if you are a man theseadays. I havent tried it. But the primary schools seem to be saying its okay!!