My Mum gave me "the sex talk" when I was about eleven (my Dad was suddenly interested
in something behind the sofa), and said (as I was possibly going to boarding school) that some
boys liked to put their willies up other boys' bottoms.
I remember saying to Mum, "But that would mean they'd get covered in poo."
Need I go further?
For some reason I cannot quite explain, sodomy has never held much appeal for me.
Too much information, too early, never did anyone any good.
At 7 I was fascinated with the Beano and playing "Kiss Chase" with the wee girls at school:
which was "hellishly sexual" insofar as we'd get to kiss a girl (on the cheek!) if we caught her.
NO; sexual behaviour should be left like that: slowly emerging in a relatively harmless fashion
until absolutely necessary.
AND I can quite categorically state that the fact that I did not lose my virginity until I was 23
has never caused me any regret: it happened when I was ready for it, not when someone else pushed me into
a silly decision.