I too have lived in South Africa a place called Kirstenhof, I was never happy there and never felt safe or comfortable, the Afrikaaners did not welcome the English as they were still ''fighting'' the Boer war with us, I could tell you many tales but for me it would stir up too many unpleasant memories...15 months later we were transfered to Hong Kong and as I walked through the front door of the flat that had been allocated to us I felt the whole world fall from my shoulders, I was much happier living in Hong Kong, I made many good friends both English and Chinese, my children were much happier and the schools were much better.