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Michael Rolls

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so this is it
« on: Dec 31, 2020, 05:26:38 AM »
The last day of a thoroughly rotten year. When I look back in my diary to this day last year....
Just hope 2021 offers some crumbs of improvement for those of us left - I do realise that for Phil 2021 is going to be even worse and my heart goes out to him and his good lady

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Re: So This Is It
« Reply #1 on: Dec 31, 2020, 07:36:04 AM »
The last day of a thoroughly rotten year. When I look back in my diary to this day last year....
Just hope 2021 offers some crumbs of improvement for those of us left - I do realise that for Phil 2021 is going to be even worse and my heart goes out to him and his good lady

Mike

Thanks Mike,

I don't think I'll regard any year as a good year from now on in, they'll just be years.

2021 will be the year my life ends & my existence begins.

I do, however, echo Mike's wishes for a better year for all of you, especially Ron & Audrey.
Make every day count, each day is precious.
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Michael Rolls

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Re: So This Is It
« Reply #2 on: Dec 31, 2020, 07:56:17 AM »
Thanks Mike,

I don't think I'll regard any year as a good year from now on in, they'll just be years.

2021 will be the year my life ends & my existence begins.

I do, however, echo Mike's wishes for a better year for all of you, especially Ron & Audrey.
That's exactly how I have felt ever since I lost Veronica.
All the best
Mike
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Maddie Malone

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Re: So This Is It
« Reply #3 on: Dec 31, 2020, 08:23:48 AM »
Thanks Mike,

I don't think I'll regard any year as a good year from now on in, they'll just be years.

2021 will be the year my life ends & my existence begins.


I do, however, echo Mike's wishes for a better year for all of you, especially Ron & Audrey.




2021 will be the year my life ends & my existence begins  (  I agree with you  totally Phil
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I hope Ron you get to see Audrey as like Phil my husband is home with me as well for now .
My wish if I could have one is for us to be able to see our 47 th wedding anniversary in together on the 12th
Fingers crossed aye .





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Re: So This Is It
« Reply #4 on: Dec 31, 2020, 08:33:45 AM »

2021 will be the year my life ends & my existence begins  (  I agree with you  totally Phil
 xx)

I hope Ron you get to see Audrey as like Phil my husband is home with me as well for now .
My wish if I could have one is for us to be able to see our 47 th wedding anniversary in together on the 12th
Fingers crossed aye .

I do hope you manage to see you 47th wedding anniversary together.

I'd have liked to reach our ten year wedding anniversary but that won't be until July so I'll have to settle for nine years &, realistically, six months.

My thoughts are with you both. xx
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Maddie Malone

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Re: so this is it
« Reply #5 on: Dec 31, 2020, 08:41:26 AM »
Thanks Phil .
Often through my day I wonder how you both are doing .
Hang in there love that’s all we can do now xx

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Re: So This Is It
« Reply #6 on: Dec 31, 2020, 09:22:04 AM »
Thanks Phil .
Often through my day I wonder how you both are doing .
Hang in there love that’s all we can do now xx

Hi Maddie,

I'm sad to say that I think my wife's nearing the end as she's remarkably worse than she was this time yesterday. xx



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Hugh

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Re: so this is it
« Reply #7 on: Dec 31, 2020, 09:46:35 AM »
Maddie and Phil I feel for you both, I am now reliving what I was going through 2 years ago. Yvonne was refusing all medication, so I knew time was near, she lasted until the evening of the 21st February. I was holding her hand and saying how much I loved her before she slipped away.

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Re: so this is it
« Reply #8 on: Dec 31, 2020, 09:47:29 AM »
Your in our thoughts, your not alone, we are here to listern. 

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Re: so this is it
« Reply #9 on: Dec 31, 2020, 08:18:45 PM »
Thinking of you all this new years eve.
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Maddie Malone

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Re: So This Is It
« Reply #10 on: Dec 31, 2020, 08:26:45 PM »
Hi Maddie,

I'm sad to say that I think my wife's nearing the end as she's remarkably worse than she was this time yesterday. xx


Sorry to hear that Phil ❤️




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Re: so this is it
« Reply #11 on: Dec 31, 2020, 08:35:52 PM »
My love to you all.. So very sad.. x
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Re: so this is it
« Reply #12 on: Dec 31, 2020, 08:40:17 PM »
I echo Jacq's sentiment Phil..We're here if you need to vent..or not. My thoughts are with you both mate.
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Re: so this is it
« Reply #13 on: Dec 31, 2020, 10:08:29 PM »
I hate this time of year, so many have to leave. I was alone with my dad when he left on December 23rd a few years back. Never felt the same about the holiday since.

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Re: so this is it
« Reply #14 on: Dec 31, 2020, 10:10:52 PM »
Sorry to about your wife Phil - a sad time for you.     Bob