a friends 18 year old daughter who died of a blood disorder was cremated, but first the church service, black ties were banned, you were stopped at the door and a bright tie was given if you turned up with a black one... then at the crem a group of young people played amazing happy songs, singing with tears running down their faces, the most emotional funeral i have ever attended, she was a Liverpool supporter [i think she went to school with Kevin Keegan] but this was before he played for them... as the curtain closed the group played yes your right Alex "youll never walk alone" trust me its hard to sing while you are sobbing, but they managed it, as did I.[/i]